28 January 2013

Thank you to everyone for taking the time to check out this blog.  Since our efforts are focused on returning to Uganda full time I thought I might need a little more of a website to work with.  So I am leaving this blog and focusing our efforts on a new site.  Please take the time to go over and subscribe and you can continue to follow our journey there.  This should be the last post here for a long time.


We will be keeping updates going there for the next year and a half while we raise support.  It might be a little slow but we'll be there, not here.
Dolge Famliy

21 January 2013

"I am with you and for you. When you decide on a course of action that is in line with My will, nothing in heaven or on earth can stop you..." (Jesus Calling, Jan. 9). We have decided on a course of action that we believe is in line with God's will for our family and that is our return to New Hope Uganda's Kasana Children's Center as full time missionary staff. When we left Uganda, we had a feeling we would be returning on a more long-term basis, but we didn't want to act too quickly. So we waited to be certain. And we are certain for now it's where our family is meant to be. I will learn how to be a full time home school mom and hopeful mentor to a few young women. I've mentioned it before, but our family was more alive than we have ever been while in Uganda. The country, culture, people and environment really allowed us to grow as a family and really enjoy each other. There are precious people there who hold my heart and I can't wait to return! I can't wait to see the kids in the Jonathan family and see how they have grown, both physically and in their understanding of God's love for them. I look forward to seeing little Sam and seeing if I can still make him smile that half smile of his. So, this is the course set before us. It seems insurmountable, but we are certain it's the way we are to go. Our goal is to leave for Uganda in June 2014. Will you consider partnering with us?

We are trying to get the word out so pass this on to anyone and everyone. We are working on another website that will offer us a little more flexibility. I hope to copy this blog over to the new one at some point. Its not to pretty and needs some work (it takes a while to learn how to write codes) but it will be replacing this one at some point. Check it out at dolgehut.com

Please continue to be praying for us and this new direction. If you wold like a prayer card sent to you just let us know. We are working at building up our contacts so please drop us an email dolge@cvinternet.net

We are looking at some startup costs associated with moving to Uganda. There will be the cost of tickets to Uganda, one way this time. We will get to build a house once we are there. It will be ours as long as we are there and then NH will use it for the next family. We will be raising a special fund as well for a vehicle once we get there. I'll be able to sell my tractor and car here to help offset this. Not sure why cars in Africa can cost more than in the States.

Donate through New Hope. In the program area click individual foreign missionary staff and type in our names. If you are interested in monthly support you can select the monthly box as well. https://www.givedirect.org/give/givefrm.asp?CID=11859

Go Fund Me:
I am trying out another idea someone had for fundraising.

01 January 2013

As we start a new year we start a new journey. One that will be where God wants us. Its the next chapter in our desire to work with the children in Africa. New Hope has invited us back to serve as missionaries on a more long term basis. There are many steps to take and many new lessons to learn, but we know this is where we are supposed to be for this next few years. We invite you to join us in praying for us as we start the process of support raising and leaving Alaska. Stay tuned for updates and ways you can come along and partner with us.
Its been a long cold winter so far and we welcome the new year with a 30 degree break from the -30 degree weather we have had most of the winter so far.
Taylor and Trevor were in charge of the fireworks this year. We could actually go outside and enjoy them this year. Tobyn made it till about 10pm before he zonked out.
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2 ESV

03 October 2012

I feel compelled to write at this very moment. I couldn’t stand it any longer…so I set down my crochet needle and yarn and I warmed up my coffee and here I am. It’s been too long since I’ve written and I know some of you out there do not know much about what has gone on in our lives since returning from Uganda. I’m sorry for the silence. We left Uganda with the desire to return, feeling like we were leaving home to come home. Strange. We sat on that desire for a while, making sure it was what God wanted of us and not just a romantic idea. I feel like we were most alive there, all of us. Every day I think of the people we were connected with and I long to be there. We decided to move forward on that desire and we began the application process a couple of months ago. I’m thankful we kept all of our paperwork from our application process the first time when we attended the institute. Many of the questions were similar, plus many more. It helped to have a framework to work from and just update and change what was a little different, since our viewpoint is a little different than it was before we spent 5 months there. After much work, we got it all together and now we are about 1 week from knowing if we are accepted to return to New Hope Uganda, Kasana Children Centre, as full time missionaries. Wow, full time missionaries. What a title! I can’t think of another family any less qualified, but that’s ok since the only thing that really makes any of us qualified is Jesus Christ! If we are accepted, we will begin the process of raising support and preparing for returning. We both feel comfortable with making a 5-year commitment, so that’s what we’re looking at. That’s where we’ll start. We will also need to pinpoint what the best fit for us will be. I will be looking at homeschooling full time for the first time and will need to research what program to go through, or maybe just do it independently? Open to ideas there! There are many positions and needs at New Hope and we will be decided where the best fit for Troy will be. I look forward to investing in the lives of the young women there, speaking truth into their lives and encouraging them. I look forward to showing love to them in tangible ways, hugging them and being Jesus’ arms to them. I look forward to my boys being reunited with very special friends at New Hope. Please pray with us. Whether the answer is yes or no, that our family would pursue our heavenly Father like never before. Pray that we would learn what we are supposed to learn right now and that we would live fully in the present. Pray that we would have wisdom in choices for our family. I feel like we need your prayers like never before as we look ahead to the future. We will keep you posted and we will know more specific needs very soon. I just wanted you to know what’s going on right now and how close we are to knowing if we will be returning to Uganda. We’re so excited and so nervous…and very aware of our shortcomings! Thank you for being a part of our lives. You are dear to us!

19 February 2012

Dreaming of Africa, living in the North

It seems a day does not go by with out talking about Africa. We stare out the window at 3 feet of snow and down to -30 degree raw temperatures wondering what we are doing. Its been a few months now and we are adjusted back to our little culture in Alaska. I think the cold would be a good trade for the heat of Uganda, but I am not sure. As tired of the cold as I am, would I melt in Uganda? We often joke about our extreme climate living situations. But Africa has griped our family and we look forward to our return. My boys randomly talk about something they did there and how they miss their friends. I didn't want this blog to die off so I thought of posting some pictures of the cold here at home.
The work I do
Tobyn and his little grin
this is not my picture, but the northern lights always impress.

27 November 2011

Back Home

We made it back to Washington after many hours traveling. Trying to adjust and be back in America. We'll post a bigger update soon, but we are home with family for a few days then back on the plane for Alaska soon.

thank you all

05 November 2011

Watoto / Bethany

It was a full day on the “Rosa Deluxe”. All of the students packed into this 25-seater van that has seen more of the bumpy Ugandan roads than any other vehicle here at New Hope. We call her the “Rosa” and I noticed the “e” in “Deluxe” was missing and that made me smile all the more. The men had to push it fast so the engine would start. I was hoping the driver would think twice before parking it uphill somewhere in Kampala. He knew what he was doing and I didn’t have to worry.

I had been warned already about the music situation since our classmates had made the 9 hour one way trip up north to Kumi last weekend to visit the Kobwin Children’s Center which is an extension of New Hope. Troy will fill you in on that one. Back to the music…they listened to a tape that had only 5 songs on it the entire way to Kumi…and back! So I knew I had 5 songs ahead of me to learn by heart before we returned from our long one-day adventure. The purpose of our trip was to visit other children centers in Uganda to see how they are run. Typically this trip is made over 2 days, but the third center wasn’t able to have us so we crammed it all into one very full day.

We went straight to Watoto Church in Kampala (which I’m told is like the “Hillsong” of Uganda) and from there met up with our tour guide who would take us to the Watoto Children Center about 1 ½ hours away. When we arrived, I was in awe as we drove up the hillside and the lawn was all so neatly manicured and there was just one home after another, all looking the same. I haven’t seen anything so American since coming to Uganda. Each home has a number, and they would need to as there were at least 79 and they were cookie cutter homes, white brick and all the same layout. We just kept driving up and up and we could soon look out over beautiful valleys. It was very impressive. I kept thinking about how much fun my boys would have rolling all over that green grass! Watoto has over 1500 between students and staff. We parked the Rosa and went straight to the baby house. It looked to be fairly new and I felt as if I was standing before someone’s gorgeous mansion.

We were quickly brought inside and divided into two teams and sent in two different directions. We washed our hands and dove right into a room full of at least 10 babies all near 1 year old. Many were in tears. It was lunchtime and the ladies were working as quickly as they could to get their lunch of mashed pumpkin in bowls and ready for each little one. I was surprised how quickly the little ones swarmed to us. I sat down on the floor and had 4 in my lap just like that. They were so quick to come into our laps and one little one just wrapped his little arms around me and claimed me for my short 30-minute visit. They were so quick to copy with little clicking of their tongues or smooching of their lips, quick to be comforted and quick to giggle. I could tell the ladies were taking good care of these little ones. They were not lacking affection or attention. It really was a blessing to come in and pour out love on these babies. So there were two rooms with just as many little ones and I’m wondering if there were more. I don’t know.

We moved on to see the school at Watoto and the trade training. There was a room where clothes (“clothe-ez” as my Uganda friends say it) and another room where a beauty school was going on. I got some great photos of my Uganda brothers with hair extensions draping over their purposefully bald heads! I’m not sure if I had more fun taking the pictures or if they had more fun seeing their pictures…it was great! We all got a good laugh. The school was at the very top of the hillside with many signs that had positive messages all throughout the landscaped yard. The view was absolutely breathtaking and many more nice buildings for classes and dorms for the older kids were on the top of the hill. There was also many more building in process. I learned later that the majority of the money coming in to Watoto is from the choir that tours in the US. They have something going on like the African Children’s Choir and they tour the US performing. They also have a nice wood and metal shop. It was a very impressive place and good to see another center and how it works

After this stop, we all boarded the Rosa and headed back into the city in the rain (the Rosa leaks water too ;)) and on to the shores of Lake Victoria for a boat ride to Bethany House. We boarded the big wood boat with a tarp on the top, all 30 of us, and went out on the rough water for the 30-minute boat ride to where the Bethany House is located. When we arrived they fed us a feast, and we were hungry too! They kept bringing out one pot after another of Ugandan food I have grown to really enjoy. We feasted on matoke (steamed food banana like a sticky mashed potato), rice, boiled potato and cassava (it’s more firm and has more fibers than a potato) and a couple vegetable dishes with cabbage and eggplant and a bean sauce and a meat sauce (which typically has bones like crazy and few pieces of meat). It really was a great lunch and we enjoyed it all the more since we were 3 hours overdue!

So, Bethany House is another children center for orphaned or vulnerable children but had an entirely different feel from Watoto. It was a much smaller scale and is run off donations from people in the US. We visited one family mother who has 19 kids living in her home, the “Grace” home. She was very gracious to have us in and answer our many question about her struggles with so many children and discipline and a father figure and all that. There is only one Ugandan man there who serves as a father figure for all the children in all the homes. He said they were actively looking for men to be involved, but for now he was it. It’s a huge job to be in charge of so many kids and they all come from different backgrounds and they all carry different pain. Overall, the feel at Bethany was so peaceful and serene. I felt like I was really in the middle of the jungle with Lake Victoria at one end and thick trees and bush on the other. We walked on trails through thick bush to gardens and pig and chicken houses. I saw the biggest spider of my life in a tree overhead. His web was massive and so strong. Bethany really had the feel of a little Ugandan village in the middle of the jungle. I really liked it there.

I am so thankful there are people out there who are willing to do this hard work. Now that I have written that, I am reminded that we are all called to do this hard work…to care for the orphaned, the lonely and the strangers around us. What am I going to do with what I have learned? There is no denying that it is my God given responsibility, it’s clear as day when you read scripture.

After getting our tour of Bethany, we all boarded the boat again and had a nice ride back into the city. The water was calm and there were about 10 fewer people on board, but we had a few additional chickens. That is so typical Uganda! There were about 5 chickens with their feet tied together at the front of the big wood boat. We enjoyed the sunset on the water too. I took a picture of one man fishing on our way by and he was ticked at me for sure. He shook his finger at me and said something in Lugandan, probably not something I wanted to hear anyway! Strangers don’t like having their pictures taken without permission…totally understandable. I gave him my best smile and my Ugandan brothers would have defended me if I’d needed it! ;)

We made it back to Kampala and made the long trek home in the dark and in the crazy traffic that a city filled with millions brings. We listened to the same tape with the same 5 songs and laughed and finally slept. I’m really going to miss this time.

I look at the calendar every now and then and panic when I see we only have 2 weeks of class left. Only 2 weeks to laugh with my friends here…Only 2 weeks to enjoy the ladies who work so hard serving us and providing us lunch and dinner and tea and snacks…Only 2 more weeks to thank them for serving me…Only 2 more weeks to give the kids at the Jonathan Family hugs…Only 2 more nights to join them for their game night on Wednesday and laugh with them as we play “The Prince of Uganda” and other silly games…Only 1 more Sunday to worship at Kasana Community Church, where most of the people are local Ugandans and the songs in their language are so beautifully simple and the people dance before their Father and lift their hands and sing from their hearts with so much joy. I am so thankful for our time here. I have seen life with so few things, but the people are rich. They are warm and they seem to know what life is really about. It’s a simple life and I have loved it and especially the people who live it. Thank you so much for making this possible for our family. I am so blessed because of you!